How much is virginity worth?

If you had to put a price tag on your virginity, what would be the dollar sign? Most would say "What a ridiculous question! Why would anyone try to put a monetary amount on something so special?!"

Unfortunately for those of us that share that perspective, it would appear that our view of humanity is too high. The shocking news is that a 22 year old college grad from San Diego, CA is making headline news with her intentions to sell her virginity to pay for grad school.

Using the alias Natalie Dylan, she has secured numerous talk shows and international news in which she proclaims:

"I don’t have a moral dilemma with it. Why shouldn’t I be allowed to capitalize on my virginity? I understand some people may condemn me. But I think this is empowering. I’m using what I have to better myself."

Thankfully, some of the talk show hosts agree with the general public - this is prostitution and is completely absurd. Foremost among them is Tyra Banks who brought Natalie, her sister, in addition to a few bunnies from the Moonlite Bunny Ranch in Nevada along with the owner, Dennis Hof to her show.

Dennis, it appears is in full support of Natalie's decision and is happy to host the auction and latter "act" at his brothel. Is Dennis' motivation the liberation of woman and the freedom of sexual expression? Or perhaps he simply wants Natalie to get a good education. No...its rather the 50% cut from Natalie's earnings. And with the highest offers ranging from $1 million to $3.7 million, that's a lot of change in Dennis' pocket.

And the surprise guest on Tyra's show? One of Natalie's bidders! And guess what, he's a 56 year old man who admits "having a virgin" has been one of his "fantasies."

...sick...

As disgusting as this story is, it brings up a good talking point. Can you put a price tag on virginity? Is putting a price tag on your self - on your body - truly liberating? Or is it simply selling yourself into a form of temporary slavery where you are subject to the whims of the buyer?

At one point, Natalie stated that she won't have any harmful side effects by doing this. However, I believe she is underestimating the impact of being that vulnerable with a complete stranger.

Did you know that 2/3 teens regret losing their virginity? In addition, sexually active teens are more likely to be depressed and attempt suicide. Clearly the emotional factors associated with sex are strong! (See http://www.heritage.org/research/abstinence/cda0304.cfm for more info)

I only hope that Natalie will take Tyra Banks' advice: "Please make me proud and change your mind." Only then will she realize that she's worth more...infinitely more!